June 20, 2021
"Never fight an enemy in the manner that the enemy fights with you. Do not become the enemy and use those methods to fight with others. Remember, that is why you gathered enemies in the first place."
These are remarkable phrases and advice. I heard it in one of the episodes of the tremendously long Turkish TV serial - "Magnificent Century: Kosem Sultan" that I have been watching for quite some time now. But, that is another story.
These phrases are indeed true and quite valid as I have seen in my years of work life, in family life and in the various brotherhoods and fraternity that I am part of. Here in the past two and a half decades of work life, I have had to face many sorts of colleagues. Some became outright enemies and some went against me while being friendly upfront. The open enemy is the best friend, as much as I have seen. You know the enemy and you can get their measure. You know what is to be done and you know how to go about it. You can expect and predict their moves and at times, even if you are taken by surprise, you can still recover, get back and attack again. But attack, you must.
It is those who stay friendly, take you up the garden path, appreciate-praise-applaud all your silly actions - and then plot and plan in secrecy, ready to plunge their daggers unto you, it is them that are the most dangerous and one needs to be careful to understand and avoid becoming one like them.




